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I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :( I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

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  #21  
Unread 04-03-2008, 09:05 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

Don't feel bad my DH keeps telling me there are other ways .After 28 years of marriage I just gave him the look.....I just am not ready yet.I had my six week appt. Wednesday (4/2/08)Dr said it might not be a bad idea to wait two more weeks,that is fine with me.....Though I do miss it.
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  #22  
Unread 04-04-2008, 03:45 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

My feelings too. I am becoming more and more afraid. I just want to know that it will for sure get back to normal cause not only am I afraid for that first time, I am scared it won't "fit" the same or that it can tear up there or something.and ****, I just want that stuff to work like it did! I want to hear someone tell us for sure that that will happen.
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Unread 04-04-2008, 03:54 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

Your feelings are normal. I wasn't cleared for sex for 8wks. With my 4 wk check up just to see how things where going. He didn't even look at anything just had me come in to make sure I had no complaint or needed anything. Then I had the normal 6 wks and he told me to wait 2 more wks do to my healing inside wasn't enough yet.

As long as you take it easy you should be okay. It never hurt. It was tenderness more then anything. But, my oh my I think it was better then it ever was before.
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Unread 04-05-2008, 08:24 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
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Unread 04-05-2008, 08:53 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

I agree with coffechic, the sex is sooo much better than before. I was cleared for sex at 6 weeks. I was kinda apprehensive, but told hubby to pretend I was a virgin, lol. We did, and it was sooo good. Now the shoe is on the other foot for us, lol. It just takes time. Of course, listen to DR. when they say it is okay for you to try. Just to slow and experience the foreplay.
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Unread 04-06-2008, 08:06 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

Well I was cleared at 6 weeks and as you can tell it has been a lot longer but I have had cintinuing pain and am going back in for surgery the 10th to removed what is left! So I planned had some baileys and coffee went to a famiy birthday party and when we got home I made the leap it was great was weird felt ike the first time slow and I was terrified but it was better then I had hoped for my Dh used the word awkward cant spell. Had a little spotting after and have been hurting today but I have the adhesion scar tissue issue as well as that cyst on the left ovary. Glad I took the plunge and all I can hope for is this second surgery will correct any of the remaining issues.
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Unread 04-09-2008, 09:52 AM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

yes, I agree, my 6 week is on Monday, and I am embarrased to ask, but hopefully she will address the question
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Unread 04-09-2008, 10:13 AM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

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Originally Posted by jmwh
yes, I agree, my 6 week is on Monday, and I am embarrased to ask, but hopefully she will address the question
Don't be afraid to ask any question. That is what they are there for.

Pam
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Unread 04-09-2008, 01:28 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

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Originally Posted by sianli
omg now I don't feel so bad and at least he hasn't tried to talk me into that!!! Does anyone know for sure if my cervix was removed do I definatley have the cuff? I feel so stupid asking.
If your cervix was removed you have a vaginal cuff.
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Unread 04-09-2008, 01:31 PM
I'm scared my Doc will clear me for sex :(

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Originally Posted by sianli
Why is it messier with the cuff?
There is another thread that addresses this issue named "housekeeping".

It is messier as they say because what goes in, must come out. There is nowhere else for it to go anymore but right out. Hope that helps...
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