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Unread 05-31-2008, 04:05 PM
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Woohoo...got the clearance for sex last Thursday at 3:45 PM and had sex at 6:00PM!!! I'll give you the censored highlights...first, I was concerned about dryness, because I am a little drier than before the surgery...so I bought KY warming liquid...well...I don't need that! The bed was soaked afterwards...sorry...a lot of TMI but it is a concern of many womean and it was one of mine...so, no problem there...we took it easy, but the sensations felt the same to me except better!! Before, becaue I had fibroids all over including my intestines, when we had sex, it felt like something was...in my bottom...now, if that's your thing hey, great, but it freaked me out and I was always very uncomfortable...I had an orgasm, which I always had before, so I expected no problems there, but it was better...because my uterus was adhered to my abdominal wall with adhesions, I always had an achey feeling afterwards, but now only pleasure...I do not miss my uterus AT ALL...If I would have known how good I was gonna feel I would have had it done a couple of years ago...seriously..I asked my husband if it felt different and to PLEASE be honest...he said he could not feel a difference at all...so we are a GO!!!! I am so happy that this part of my life has not only returned to normal but gotten so much better...I cannot tell you how much I have NOT grieved my uterus being gone...My hormones are settling down, too...I was kinda dry down there, and had mood swings and such which are all levelling out...I am now just me, but improved....Thank God for hysterectomies!!!!!
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Unread 05-31-2008, 04:21 PM
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Congratulations !!!!
Unread 05-31-2008, 04:27 PM
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well good for you m'lady. i'm counting the days to our clearance. my fibroid was in a spot that caused difficulties and discomfort so i'm hopeful that we'll have a better time of it as well.

you go girl.
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Unread 05-31-2008, 08:03 PM
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WOOHOO!! We are counting the days down until we can do the same! We are down to 12...and subtracting!
I think we will have an early bedtime that nite!! :P
Unread 05-31-2008, 08:11 PM
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I am so happy for you. I cant wait until we can do it but i still have a while yet, and when that day comes watch out. Counting the days.
Unread 06-01-2008, 03:25 AM
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SouthernSpice ... I feel the same way as you! The BF and I enjoyed a positive return to intimacy as well 8 weeks post-op.

We took it easy and OMG ... it was the best painfree sex I have had in a really long time! And like you, the bed was soaked, lubrication was not an issue...I know TMI.

So much happier.
Unread 06-01-2008, 08:51 AM
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Great News!!!

I'll be 6 weeks this coming Thursday but since I my 6 wek appt was scheduled for 6/10 I'll have to wait a few more days. I'm so hoping I get cleared!!!
Unread 06-01-2008, 09:04 AM
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What does TMI mean?
I have seen it before and can't figure out what it is!
Unread 06-01-2008, 09:17 AM
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TMI stands for Too Much Information.

This is an opportune time to remind everyone that everything posted on the message boards is public. Often women are embarrassed when their friends, family and co-workers find information posted here that the writer thought was private. Also, it's good to remember that there a PG rating on this site per the Guidelines.

Unread 06-01-2008, 10:12 AM
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Congrats, SouthernSpice!!!!!

I'm counting down my days like others....16 to go til my 6 week post-op appointment!!!!

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