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Unread 08-04-2008, 10:54 AM
Surgery on 08/08/08 and terrified

I am having surgery on Friday and I am terrified. I have a 5 year old son and a great fiance but my fear is over whelming. I am struggling with the fact of not having children with my fiance after we get married, not having a brother or sister for my son (big familys are huge in my family) and the pain that I will more than likely have afterwards....well....you probably know. My fear and sadness is pretty much taking over....Please say a prayer...

Thank you so much.....

PS....if you want to whole story I posted it in aching hearts....
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Unread 08-04-2008, 10:48 PM
Surgery on 08/08/08 and terrified

Hi. My surgery is August 7th and I am very scared myself. Although I have three children, knowing that I will not have a child with my fiance breaks my heart. I am terrified of all the things that they say could go wrong. I am mostly afraid of how sex will be afterward. I will send peace and prayers for you and remember me in your prayers, God bless us all.
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Unread 08-04-2008, 10:51 PM
Surgery on 08/08/08 and terrified



May God comfort you, and grant you peace and strength during this time.

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Unread 08-06-2008, 03:12 PM
Surgery on 08/08/08 and terrified

toworried:
have your fiance said anything to you about not been able to have children with him? some men are ok with that and your fiance sounds like he is one of them....praise God.

I know how you feel about leaving your son as the only child, but like you said,you have a big family and he will have lots of cousins and aunts, uncles....I have an only child (daughter) and I was always making sure she was with one of her cousins and traveled with all of them so she would not feel alone.....it worked fine.

about the pain you are afraid to feel afterwards, dont worry, the doctors and nurses will do everything to keep you pain free and is really not that bad, I had abdominal surgery and never felt that huge pain, I have felt more pain with endometriosis pains....

QUEENHUNT: dont think about the negatives on what could go wrong with your surgery...think positive thoughts and have faith that God will be with you and see you thru.
BTW, I am almost 5 months post op and sex if great, just like before and I would say ever better.
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Unread 08-06-2008, 03:20 PM
Surgery on 08/08/08 and terrified

Please please please know that to have a child come from your body is NOT the only way to have a child! So so many children exist in our world and are unwanted. I know it is not the same, but it can be better! God BLess you and give you the peace that passes understanding as you prepare!
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Unread 08-06-2008, 07:37 PM
Surgery on 08/08/08 and terrified

I too am having surgery Friday. And I am too absolutely terrified. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and ask that you do the same for me. I too only have 1 child but have some other medical problems that made us decide to not have anymore.
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Unread 08-08-2008, 03:22 PM
Surgery on 08/08/08

My prayers are lifted up for 'toworried' and 'lighthouse17'. Sending good thoughts your way.
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