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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
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09-03-2001, 05:00 PM
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Hysterectomy: August 17th, 2001
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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
I need to know if it's okay to have a orgasm yet or not? I'm craving sexual activity already and its been 16 days since my abdominal surgery. Don't worry I would never actually have sexual relations until I get the green light.
I don't mean to sound tacky, but iis this safe to just have an orgasm?? My DH is willing to wait, but I'm the one who has been over-actively thinking about sex already. Please respond. Thanks.
Connie Jean
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09-03-2001, 05:37 PM
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Hysterectomy: September 21st, 2000
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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
I was told by my Dr "nothing IN the vagina" but as far as an orgasm goes give it a whirl. Sometimes if you are in such a state they will occur on there own.. I know that there was never a problem for me. This by the way was such a big topic around the time of my surgery, alot of women wonder.
Good luck
Andrea U
Alberta Canada
TVH Sept 21 2000
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09-03-2001, 05:46 PM
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Hysterectomy: July 16th, 2001
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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
My doctor told me at my 2 week check-up, no intercourse, but can do other things.
I had 4 orgasms before my 6 week check-up. I was worried that I would feel pain, but didn't. It was wonderful!
Unless he said no orgasms, or you feel pain inside, I'd go for it!
I was 3 weeks with my first one. So I felt great and no pains inside.
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09-04-2001, 12:35 AM
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Posts: 2,442
Hysterectomy: September 1st, 2000
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
Go easy at first. I had a um, uh hot dream while still in the hospital and the contractions hurt!
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09-04-2001, 07:28 AM
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Posts: 724
Hysterectomy: August 21st, 2001
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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
Thanks Connie Jean...for asking this big question! 8)
I am the same way...whazzup with our raging hormones? Guess it is that "want what you can't have" syndrome?
My SS (Significant Sweetie) and I were "playing around" a little last night...thank God that he has more willpower than I! I was ready...he is too...but he's more sensible! Anyway...I was really afraid of my ability to orgasm, after reading some bad things! ("Some women lose their ability to orgasm if they were having uterine orgasms?!) OMG...was petrified because part of my major decision factor to go ahead w/ the TAH was based on the dampers it was causing sexually! Anyway...we discovered it was still there...the ability! It did not hurt exactly...I think I was so tense from fear that I was using my abdominal muscles too much and that was causing pain...but the big O itself caused no pain. Also...the spasm or contracting with the big O...that can hurt...again...the abdominal muscles, if you had a TAH. I think it could actually be beneficial for us...sexual healing?!
To those of you who are curious...I would suggest starting out very slowly...maybe just solo... NOTHING INSIDE!!!! 8)
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09-04-2001, 09:41 AM
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Posts: 469
Hysterectomy: August 2nd, 2001
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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another sister's response to the Big O discussion
Okay,
I.m glad we can talk about these things here. I had also been wondering if this would hurt me to fool around and have an orgasm. My husband and I tried this the first time around two weeks, I think. I was surprised by how easily I was aroused and lubricated
(I will be blunt here!!) Anyway, that and the fact that I was able to have a good orgasm with no pain. I had been so worried about this. DH was glad, and claimed he knew all along that things would be fine!! It was no different than it was before, and now we can do it any time of the month!! I have about one and a half weeks to go until we can actually have intercourse, and we're really looking forward to it. I just have to get past the hangup I have about my swollen belly looking unnatractive.
Margaret
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09-04-2001, 10:11 AM
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Posts: 724
Hysterectomy: August 21st, 2001
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Please see the poll!
OMG you all...I just love that you all seem to answer things that I have floating in my mind...and want to ask! (I am not even a shy person!)
Wanted to ask you all to go to the poll I made that relates to this topic! It is about the "first time" after your HYST...and what it was like!
I LMBO on Margarets reply...becuae one of my answers on the poll is something to do with, "Great once I got past my swelly belly hang ups!"
Do we all read each others minds, or what???
{{{hugs}}}
Kat
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09-04-2001, 01:09 PM
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Posts: 597
Hysterectomy: August 20th, 2001
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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green light on orgasm
I talked to my doctor at the one week staple removal. He said absolutely no intercourse until he gives the go ahead. I asked if it was safe to have an orgasm. He said that yes, enjoy each other, but no penetration.
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09-04-2001, 01:59 PM
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Posts: 94
Hysterectomy: August 9th, 2001
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks says the doctor, what about orgasms?
LOL my first thoughts were oh how funny we always want what we cant have~!!!My Dr.Gave me the go ahead for gentel sex at 5weeks!!Thats when i saw him for my chk up and i did tell him hey ya know im only at 5 weeks and he said looks good go ez!But needless to say i was scared so im gonna wait till im comfortable.
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09-04-2001, 06:23 PM
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wanting what can't have
I love this site and glad everyone can be so open! Ok so this is my question, problem, idea. I had a LAVH, kept overies, and am just at one week postop. My mind started running, (well hormones too I believe ha!) is it safe for me to have an O now, of course nothing internal but just even me by myself , you know to sort of make sure everythings up to par! I know this is hilarious when I think about it, but the fear of what if I can't or it's not the same is driving me nuts, will it hurt, and so on. I also am having no bleeding or discharge to speak of, knock on wood! so that opens up oral possibilities? lord I hope i am not too frank, my husband and I have a wonderful sex life for 15 years together, never any lapses has just got better and better through the years, and I am missing him and us and I am in fear of the unknown big O mostly, ok, I am blushing terribly as I see my words and don't know quite what else to say, anyone have any ideas, is it too soon for me to try one solo, is oral a possibility later? Gosh I don't want to have to call my doctor and ask these things, of course I will if need be, but I know so many women on this site, maybe some answers or ideas girls? I'm rambling and sort of embaressed but jeez I know we must all think these things.
Anyway thanks in advance for any insight! ha!
In wellness,
Lisa
LAVH Aug.30th, 2001
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