Anxiety

Hi girls! just to share: I"m also having anxiety problems,not sleeping well using relaxing tea and mid-nite pills, I have no idea if it has to be with my hormones or what(I'm 10weeks post op now) and using a Estraderm patch 0,05mg(estraidol) twice a week. or it have to do with my personal problems.

Well I'm having some problems with my dh:
1- He was very supportive during the firsts 5 weeks but after my 6th when the dr said ok, I told him that I wanted to try but I was a little scare and any way the doctor said to be gentle and not deep penetration for the first time, so the first time I was tense and scare nothing great happen and he was not to happy but then we waited few days and get better but my livido is not the best.

2nd-We are having some financial problems because I had not income during this 7 weeks i stayed home post op( I went back to work @ 8weeks) and......
3rd- And like 2 or 3 time already I discover him putting away extra money from his pay check( like hiding it) when we still falling behind with the bills. it is not the first time and I had talk nice to him and argued about it too, but he is not giving me a good reason for it and I don't know what to do anymore I feel so sad (it's a long story) sorry I just need to vent.
thanks for any advice.