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Unread 10-23-2001, 05:21 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

I JUST WANTED TO SAY HI TO ALL OF YOU WONDERFUL LADIES AT THIS SITE. IWILL BE GOING TO THE CASTLE SOON AND I'M GETTING VERY NERVOUS. I HOPE THE DR. DOES'NT FIND ANYMORE ENDO EXCEPT STAGE 1 , WHICH HE ALREADY TOLD ME I HAD. THIS WAITING IS THE WORST THING EVER. 3 MONTHS SEEMS LIKE 3 YRS. TO ME. THEY FOUND MY CANCER IN SEPT. BUT IT SEEMS LIKE FOREVER WITH ALL THIS WAITING. I JUST HAD TO TELL SOMEONE.
THANKS FOR LETTING ME CRY ON YOUR SHOULDERS.
PUPPY2
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Unread 10-23-2001, 05:38 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

Hang in there puppy!!
You will do just fine I feel, and we will all be here for you!!
Be sure to put your surgery date in your profile when you have it so it will show up on the calendar as well wishes and prayers are posted a day or two before for all the ladies going to the castle!!
3 months does seem to drag on when you are going through this I agree, but it will all be behind you soon and thats the main thing!!
Sending big hugs!! Keep us posted and let us know when you get your date!!
Hugs,
Maria
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Unread 10-23-2001, 06:20 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

Oh your poor girl I just hate all the worry and stress that goes with the hyster and on top of that there is the worry of cancer. Dont ever worry about coming here and having a cry , thats what we are all here for . x x x Sometimes I found such relief in posting about my fears and often I just came to cry, always there was an answer that certainly helped . Please know that we are here for you always and do let us know the date of surgery . Take good care , much love coming your way from "Down Under" x x x
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Unread 10-23-2001, 10:32 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

{{Puppy}}

I hope the time will go swiftly for you. I know how hard the wait can be.

Please know we're always here with a shoulder or an ear. We'll all help in any way we can.

{{Hugs}}

Vicki
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Unread 10-25-2001, 02:39 AM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

{{{Puppy}}}

You can cry on us anytime. The waiting is so hard. Get lots of rest and eat well so you can recover quickly after your surgery..

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Unread 10-26-2001, 06:37 AM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

Hi! Please know that it is okay to be scared!! We all have been scared during our travels and some of us still get scared too! You must keep in mind that you are not alone and that we all care and want to help you through this! Feel free to come here and type to us about whatever is on your mind! We all want to help you!!
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Unread 11-02-2001, 05:48 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

i just wanted to sya thanks for all the support from this site.

my day is coming soon 11/12/01, and i am starting to feel really

shaky, i mean i won't even be thinking about anything and i start

to shake, and tremble. i am already on xanax but i don't want to

over do it. i am so scared about the surgery. i wonder about

things like, will i wake up? what if they don't get it all? has it

spread? i mean i'm driving myself nuts and probably driving you

ladies goofy too.

thanks for letting me share my fears.
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Unread 11-02-2001, 06:13 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

(((Puppy))))
Can only speak for myself but ya aren't drivin me goofy at all! We know what you are going through, and everything you are feeling is so very normal. I think everyone facing surgery of any kind have those "will I wake up" fears etc.

I am not going to say don't be nervous because of course you are. So....I will say.....just think how good you will be feeling on Nov. 13th....and everyday after that!! Just think how good you will be feeling by Christmas!!

And keep remembering...if you have to have this...stage 1 is the one to have!!
My oncologist told me if you have to have ovarian, the one I had is the one to have, as its very curable with the chemo I had, so I take heart in those words.

So dear Puppy, you post all you want here, wherever you are feeling nervous or scared, and you will always find support, and super hugs here...24/7, we are here for you.!!
You are going to get through this!!!
Love and Hugs!!
Maria
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Unread 11-02-2001, 06:52 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

not driving me goofy either, already was

This feeling of fear is so perfectly normal when having the hysterectomy and on top of that you have the worry of cancer. We all have had those same fears of it spreading or them not getting it all and of course will I wake up. There isnt any answer but to know, that we know exactly what you are going through right now and that we are here for you always.

Puppy, anytime you need some support or just a hug please dont hesitate to come here to us. You take it easy and believe me it will all soon be over. Love and more love to you always
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Unread 11-04-2001, 03:04 PM
Just Hi, And I'm Scared

HI EVERYONE,
WELL, HERE I AM AGAIN,5:00 CST. JUST DROPPED MY GUY FRIEND OFF AND NOW I AM SOOO FULL OF ANXIETY AND
DEPRESSED THAT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I AM COMING
DOWN WITH A SINUS INFECTION, ( I GET THOSE AT LEAST 2
TIMES A YR.) I HAVE TO CALL THE DOC TOMORROW SO I CAN GET
SOME ANTIBIOTICS. DO NOT WANT TO PUT OFF MY SURGERY NEXT
MONDAY. GREAT TIMING FOR THIS STUPID SINUS THING!!!
I ALREADY CLEANED EVERYTHING THIS WEEKEND AND EVEN PUT
UP FRESH CURTAINS ALL OVER FOR THE HOILDAYS,CAUSE I KNOW I WON'T BE ABLE TO WHEN I GET HOME.
I JUST FEEL LIKE CRYING AND I CAN'T!! THOUSANDS UPON THOUSANDS OF LADIES HAVE HAD HYSTS, BUT I FEEL LIKE I'M THE ONLY ONE. I EVEN FEEL SORRY FOR ME, SCARED FOR ME, DEPRE-
SSED FOR ME TOO. I'M THE BIGGEST SCARDY CAT AROUND. ALL
I CAN DO IS WORRY!! WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH ME?
I WANT COMPANY AND THEN I DON'T. I'M DRIVING MY FRIEND NUTS, I THINK. WE WORK TOGETHER AND START AT 6:00 A.M SO,
I WAS GREATFUL TO DROP HIM OFF EARLY TODAY. NOW I FEEL LOUSY. I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT OR WHAT TO THINK.
GOD I WISH THIS WAS OVER.
THANKS FOR LETTING ME CRY ON YOUR SHOULDER AGAIN.
I STILL DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO USE THE LITTLE CUTE SMILES
YET. MY MIND IS NOT ON ANYTHING BUT POOR ME!!!
I CAN'T EVEN WRITE IN PARAGRAPHS.
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