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Can they really be so stupid?? Can they really be so stupid??

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Unread 04-04-2011, 10:35 AM
Can they really be so stupid??

Ok so picture this.

Saturday night, just over 5 weeks post op TAH. It late evening so I asked the BF if he wanted to watch TV in bed, that way if I've fallen asleep he doesn't need to wake me up to go to bed.

So get myself into bed and eventually get into a comfortable position, BF is watching me for about 5 minutes so when I've had enough of being looked at like a goldfish in a bowl I asked him why he was watching and he said.

"WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU, IS EVERYTHING OK?"

Oh now let me think I said, I've had my uterus out, my hormones are out of wack, I can't sleep, have had flushes, night sweats, my moods are up and down and I feel like crying but other than that I'm fine.

"I WAS JUST ASKING" He says.

MEN.........
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Unread 04-04-2011, 10:40 AM
Re: Can they really be so stupid???????

Yes, they can.

Walmart, checkout, DH pushes cart behind me. and stops--I'm squished up against the counter with my belly, the cart pushing on my behind, and can't move--I tell him to move the cart, he starts to protest, I just look at him and tell him we'll discuss it later. Outside, I lay into him--I've just had surgery and it HURTS. HE FORGOT!!?? MEN...
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Unread 04-04-2011, 10:50 AM
Re: Can they really be so stupid???????

Mine said I look OK now so I must be better - Ladies we clearly do something wrong in taking pride in our appearance.



Typical - If you can't see it, it can't be happening.

Sometimes I ask myself why I love him.
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Unread 04-04-2011, 11:08 AM
Re: Can they really be so stupid??

You know you should be sitting and taking it easy and not doing to much. 5 min later.....What are you fixing for supper?
Like Ron White says....You cant fix stupid
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Unread 04-04-2011, 01:41 PM
Re: Can they really be so stupid???????

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Mine said I look OK now so I must be better - Ladies we clearly do something wrong in taking pride in our appearance.



Typical - If you can't see it, it can't be happening.

Sometimes I ask myself why I love him.
That was my deal. The "man" said the same thing. The "lil men" said I was up and around so I must be all better.
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Unread 04-04-2011, 01:55 PM
Re: Can they really be so stupid??

Anytime I bend down, or do something new, he has to comment. Oh I see you can bed down or, get up faster, or whatever...you must be feeling OK now.

Then it is always followed with a look and I swear I can read his mind and he is thinking...so when I you going to start doing more?

Mind you he hasn't picked up any of the slack since I have been home. I am still doing laundry, and dishes(carefully), and the rest of the house has gone to hell.

*sigh*
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Unread 04-04-2011, 02:17 PM
Re: Can they really be so stupid??

Mine tells me " na na na, I won't take that from you after 6 weeks! You should be better by now". Lol!!
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Unread 04-04-2011, 02:24 PM
Re: Can they really be so stupid??


I would love to see how our men would cope with half of the symptoms we women have been through, one painful period and they would take to their beds.
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Unread 04-04-2011, 05:34 PM
Re: Can they really be so stupid??

Mine yells at the kids to help me with the laundry but the next day when its just him and I about lays on the couch and watches me do it myself
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Unread 04-04-2011, 05:42 PM
Re: Can they really be so stupid??

Mine saw me yesterday shower, get dressed and made an attempt to make myself feel better and asks

"where you going all dolled up?"

I said to the store.....
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