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I had a full hyst. March 7 he took ovaries and all, I had a few setbacks with my recovery. My doctor has explained on several visits that mine (for him) was a rare case and that he really can't give me an ETA on my recovery. Mine was one a tad bit complicated as my bladder from previous c-sections was not where it was supposed to be... long story short it will be 90 days post op June 7 and I drain so heavy that I have unwillingly transitioned from regular sanitary napkins to bladder control pads (super) I can sit at my desk in horror afraid to stand up because of previous incidents when I did it looked like I had sat in a kiddie size pool.. I need help understanding this. I am young and confused and I have absolutely no guidance or point of reference I'm basically on auto pilot. I'm afraid of sex and sometimes I feel like no one understands me emotionally I often feel lonely and not like "myself" I joke that I've been 'fixed' like a cat and now I have no interest in anything...I am at a loss if anyone can shed some insight I would be forever grateful
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Unread 05-28-2011, 09:41 PM

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Unread 05-29-2011, 03:40 AM
Re: Draining 12 wk post-op...discouraged

I’m sorry you’re having problems that bring you here but am very glad you’ve joined and hope you’ll benefit from the wealth of information and support.

Princess Ruby has linked our Post-Op Support Forum above, where you’ll find all your post-op ((sisters)), and also the Pelvic Floor & Bladder Issues forum. Please don’t hesitate to start a new thread ~ just as you did here ~ wherever best suits your needs.

Sending all good wishes and positive thoughts.


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