Anyone else having rude comments?

I agree with Spauer. People only have their own experiences to draw on. even the people in this group. My uncomfortable moment came at my pre-op appointment when i told the medical professional rooming me that i was nervous. She told me that I would be so glad to get it over with and would wish I had it done sooner. That may be true for the people who have their hysterectomy for pain or heavy bleeding but mine was to prevent cancer and I wasn't having any symptoms! People are usually not being malicious. They have good intentions. usually they really just don't know what to say but feel the need to say something anyway and that gets them in trouble.