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Unread 09-03-2011, 04:26 PM
Need to Vent/advice maybe

Hello all.okay I just need to maybe vent a little and get this off my chest being my fiance really doesn't listen to me much.

anyway,I am scheduled for my vaginal hyst on the 20th of this month and although most of the time intercourse hurts me,I still want to enjoy my intamate time with my fiance before my's the problem though...for some reason my fiance seems to have these excuses as to why he doesn't feel like doing anything with a few nights ago for some odd reason he couldn't stay erected while he was on top...I'm tryin my best not to go into too much detail or to much information here...but yeah like I said..I thought he would 'want' to enoy his time with me before my surgery...I feel lonely and not connected to him anymore..physically or emotionally and I really don't know what to do or how to fix it
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Unread 09-03-2011, 04:36 PM
Re: Need to Vent/advice maybe

maybe he is afraid he will hurt you. I think you need to tell him how u feel. Men don't often want to tell people especially their significant other they are afraid.

while we as women had this burden to bear, we sometimes forget it can be a burden on our men to. He may be afraid he will not be able to step-up when you need him or maybe something else is going on. But only he can answer that so talk to him and support him and you will want his sipport.

Good luck to you.

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