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Unread 11-10-2011, 10:32 AM
I am so angry

Ok my Dr decided to get this awesome specialist to do the surgery lap because he does amazing work. Ok I am ok with that. So nurse calls from his office..hes in two Tues. a month. She said they do not take recomendations from another Dr for a hyst. He has her records and all the tests etc that we have been trying for the last two years. My Dr updated ultrasounds etc the end of Sept. I have a fibroid that is the size of a 5.5 month preg. I feel like everything is trying to fall out. The pain is terrible day in and day out. I have no life anymore. I told this to the nurse and she said she was sure I was tired of going through this but a speciallist is meticulous and if I wanted a reg dr I should go with the one I had. Thats ok I love my Dr!! Well this speciallist wants to have his own tests and try other methods to avoid hyst. I have tried everything and am not willing to go through another year or two to try what didn't work the first time...he is talking months before he feels he might make this decision. I won't last that long. I am pale as a ghost. I am loosing all my hair. I take iron 3 times a day and am still anemic. I bleed all the time and would love one day to not have to wears pads and depends everyday of my life. I am so tired and want to feel normal again...GRRRRRR!!!
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Unread 11-10-2011, 10:54 AM
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I am so sorry....
I waited for my specialist and she was wonderful got me in with in a week after seeing me...
I would have been as upset as you are if she had said I had to wait and see.... I too was at my emotional and pain end...
Is there another gyn surgeon you could see?
Unread 11-10-2011, 09:05 PM
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I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Being put off by doctors can get very frustrating. It sounds from your post that you are in misery. Can you ask your regular doctor to recommend another specialist? Good luck...
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Unread 11-15-2011, 09:33 PM
Re: I am so angry*updated*

I went to the specialist today and my visit was great. I have learned not to just to conclusions from a nurse or reseptionist. I was edgy when I went in because I thought I was gonna get put off again. After talking to him and an exam he had already set up the surgery date before I got dressed and in his office. He said my uter and fibroid had grown and were very large and that I needed to have this taken care of now. He told me go and make the appointment for pre op right away and not to wait. So pre op is this Friday and surgery is Nov. 28th. I am so excited to get this over with so soon. I thought it would be first of the year. He was an awesome Dr and he was so reasuring!!!
Unread 11-15-2011, 10:00 PM
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Thats awsome! Glad you got some good news! Prayers that everything will go smoothly from here on. :-)
Unread 11-15-2011, 10:18 PM
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Mopar06, we will have surgery on the same day Sorry you are in so much misery. I am thankful that I only had a little spotting (after 3.5 years without a period) and some cramping. My GYN is more than willing to do the hyst. and do bladder "lift" at the same time. Dr. and PT think I feel like it is falling out. Can't wait to see how I feel after.
Unread 11-15-2011, 10:27 PM
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I'm so glad you kept the appt. It sounds like it's all coming together. Finally you should get some relief. I'm glad it's working out.
Unread 11-16-2011, 06:45 AM
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Well that makes three of us on Nov 28 th, I'm having LSH with cystocele, rectocele, and prolapsed uterus repairs, I know I couldnt wait any longer, I'm finally excited to get this done so I can return to the living again. We will all do just fine have faith and believe we are strong women. Cat
Unread 11-16-2011, 08:58 AM
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Fantastic news!
I'm glad you got through the maze of misinformation and will be getting your surgery in a timely manner. I've often thought some docs need to call their own office once in a while to see what their staff tells patients. Some of them would be shocked.

Now onto preparation mode--best wishes!

Unread 11-16-2011, 08:27 PM
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I am so happy you found a great doc to do your surgery. It is important to like your surgeon. Glad the surgery is scheduled, and that you are set. This is really good news.

(((Hugs))) to you

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