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  #91  
Unread 01-28-2012, 03:56 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

Lol Scorp.. I am thinking the same thing. I will have more piece and quiet downstairs that is for sure.. Today has been hard on me emotionally though. Barely made it through work from the pain.. Came home and been crying ever since from my nerves.
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  #92  
Unread 01-28-2012, 06:13 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

I've just read all your thread!

Just wanted to wish you good luck. In Australia it's the 29th, so you're not far away from your surgery date.

Thinking of you!! Please place an update in this thread to your new thread post op. I'd love to hear your progress.

xxx
  #93  
Unread 01-28-2012, 06:17 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

Thank you so much for your kind words Andreae! It is appreciated! I absolutely will keep everyone posted..
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  #94  
Unread 01-28-2012, 06:39 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

I had a Da Vinci hysterectomy with the removal of my cervix. I had painful sex at first, but I was just out of initial recovery! Full recovery is 6 months to 1 year (it is a controlled massive injury to your body). Sex is different, but for me, in both positive and negative ways. I am very flexible but could never take advantage because of the pain of hitting my cervix from many positions. Now that I am more healed, I can do things I couldn't bear to do before. My orgasms are just as powerful. My only negative is that it seems my vagina went back to high school, because its really tight. I'm back to when I first started having sex- where it would hurt during initial penetration and even though I am well lubricated, it takes a while to get all the way in. When that's done, though, and then we have amazing sex. What were my feelings on the removal of my cervix? You couldn't have paid me to keep it. Possibility of mini periods, cervical cancer, endometriosis, and risking having to have a second surgery? No thank you. I can not afford to have any of those things happen- financially, emotionally, and physically. I'll take the longer recovery with the safest outcome.
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Unread 01-28-2012, 07:10 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

This I have heard.. The vaginal area feeling "tighter". Bet the men like that feeling Less then 72 hours to go for me.. Just cant wait to be in the recovery room.. I am scared and excited to see my overall outcome. I must confess, I do enjoy "rough" sex most times. I am hoping that eventually I can get that back. I spoke with my husband and said since I am very freaked out at this whole vaginal cuff, I may double the time my doctor says to refrain from sex just to play it safe..
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Unread 01-28-2012, 07:29 PM
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This I have heard.. The vaginal area feeling "tighter". Bet the men like that feeling Less then 72 hours to go for me.. Just cant wait to be in the recovery room.. I am scared and excited to see my overall outcome. I must confess, I do enjoy "rough" sex most times. I am hoping that eventually I can get that back. I spoke with my husband and said since I am very freaked out at this whole vaginal cuff, I may double the time my doctor says to refrain from sex just to play it safe..
I feel like I have more room now that I have a vaginal cuff. You will know what to do with your own healing and recovery. Having intercourse off the table for a few weeks can lead to some creative intimacy. We had lots of great "outercourse" so neither of us felt deprived while we waited to be cleared for intercourse.

I asked my doctor to what my vagina was now attached. He said that it is sewn tightly to the ligaments that supported the uterus, and that is one of the suture lines he makes sure will hold really well.
  #97  
Unread 01-28-2012, 07:32 PM
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I also prefer it rougher. It took about 4-6 months for it to be back to pain free during and after rough sex. It was in those two months that it didn't hurt at all during, but it would hurt a little afterwards. Now, it doesn't during or after at all! :P Mwahahahaha.
  #98  
Unread 01-28-2012, 07:36 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

Yea. I figured some creative forplay so no one goes nuts will do the trick.. lol.. Haha Dolly.. Glad to hear I am not the only sec freak in these rooms.. lol..
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Unread 01-28-2012, 07:37 PM
surgery on 1/31 & doctor changes mind..

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  #100  
Unread 01-28-2012, 07:47 PM
Re: OMG 1 week till surgery & doctor changes mind.. PLEASE reply if cervix removed!

I'm sure if the "world" could see us as we really are, most of us would be labelled as sex freaks. My hubby always says that I come off as so very conservative to people, but when it's private and safe, there's a part of me that I express to no one else. As long as it's consentual, enjoyed by both and between adults, I say "Anything goes".
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