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Self stimulation, oral sex: dealing with my fears. Self stimulation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

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Unread 02-20-2012, 02:31 PM
Self stimulation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

Dear Sisters,

I had been avoiding these things for fear of complications. Last week, on Thursday, I've dared to try solo. It was very good, and no problems.

Then, on Saturday, me and DH started having oral sex again. All very well.

On Saturday, by the way, I've seen one of the mysterious stitches from the vaginal cuff. I don't know if there are still stiches in there, but one or two are gone. This was before my doings with DH. No bleedings and no pain.

I'm happy I've dared (my doctor had cleared me on 4 weeks, two weeks ago). I was dominated by fear of vaginal cuff dehiscence and other complications.

I'm happy I'm over it.

Orgasm wise, I have the impression they're even better now. The same, or better. I'm one of these women who never wanted babies, so, the fact the womb is gone is a huge good thing for me. Perhaps that's what makes the difference.

Now, there is intercourse to be "conquered", but I'll have to wait two weeks for that, since my doctor told me to wait till 2 months after surgery. I just hope that will be OK, too.

Lavh has taken place 6 weeks ago.

Good healing to all.
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Unread 02-20-2012, 02:53 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

YEAH!!!!!!! This is uplifting news for me! I just had my surgery a week ago, and I can't even think about sex, but it's great to know that any kind of sex feels the same or better. Good for you!
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Unread 02-20-2012, 03:30 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

I will be 8 weeks post op LAVH/bladder sling (kept ovaries) on Wednesday. The sex is amazing - I did not experience any of the vaginal dryness, bleeding or pain that some other sisters talk about. I hope the next 2 weeks don't seem like forever!! Good luck!
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Unread 02-20-2012, 03:35 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

My husband said that the next 5-7 weeks are gonna be tough for him, especially since I'm losing weight! I guess knowing they can't "have it" makes them want it more too........... Ooy.
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Unread 02-20-2012, 03:40 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

I lost 15 pounds! My husband said the same thing too! He was the one more nervous than me the first time because I had read him some of the horror stories on this site. Do yourself a BIG favor and don't tell him what happens if the vaginal cuff is torn He says he can't tell any difference inside, which is one of the things I worried about! Hang in there! It will be here before you know it!
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Unread 02-20-2012, 03:47 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

I haven't read too much about the vaginal cuff yet, but I'll be sure not to share it with him! Thanks for the tip! He's asking me to wear "not so skimpy" nightgowns around him now! LOL! At least this is making me smile......
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Unread 02-20-2012, 04:39 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

Great news! Thanks for sharing, cause we all are wondering!
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Unread 02-20-2012, 04:44 PM
Re: Masturbation, oral sex: dealing with my fears.

Great news! Thanks for sharing, cause you know we all are wondering!

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Originally Posted by Julielaw View Post
He says he can't tell any difference inside, which is one of the things I worried about!
Elated to hear this discovery, another fear I've been having!
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