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Unread 04-22-2012, 07:38 AM
What a difference a day makes.

Hubby finally pulled his head out of his butt yesterday. His attitude changed, and it has helped me have such a better attitude about things. I think he finally read the stuff I gave him from the Mr Hystersisters pages....

Today he is spoiling me with an early birthday dinner of my choice.. plus he knows tomorrow I wont want to eat much from nerves, so he wants me to have a good meal. He is staying home to help me get the house ready and just be with me.

feeling so much more positive , I am eaven dealing with the constant pain better.
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Unread 04-22-2012, 08:31 AM
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Hubby finally pulled his head out of his butt yesterday. His attitude changed, and it has helped me have such a better attitude about things. I think he finally read the stuff I gave him from the Mr Hystersisters pages....

Today he is spoiling me with an early birthday dinner of my choice.. plus he knows tomorrow I wont want to eat much from nerves, so he wants me to have a good meal. He is staying home to help me get the house ready and just be with me.

feeling so much more positive , I am eaven dealing with the constant pain better.
That's great! Things are much easier with hubby on board. My hubby had his moments before my surgery as well. We had a long conversation a few weeks after the surgery and it turns out his behavior was because he was terrified for me. Keep in mind it affects them as much as it does us, although, not physically. Plus being guys they have a problem expressing their feelings. Enjoy being pampered and good luck with your surgery.
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Unread 04-22-2012, 08:41 AM
Re: What a difference a day makes.

That's fantastic Julie and it sounds like you're in good hands! Best wishes on your upcoming surgery.
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Unread 04-22-2012, 09:48 AM
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Wow i thought i was being unreasonable with askinh my hubby to stay home from church to be with me. I really felt paranoid this day and didnt want to be alone. 2 weeks post op. Emotionally feeling strange. I mean he is the Pastor but has a lot of Elders who can hold it down for ONE SUNDAY.
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Unread 04-22-2012, 09:53 AM
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That's awesome!
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Unread 04-22-2012, 09:58 AM
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Sometimes i think that after you come home from hospital they think you are all better now.... NOT!!! it's only the beginning of a long transition. Lord give our husbands strength and the wisdom to handle this.
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Unread 04-22-2012, 02:23 PM
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I think he is really stressed about the surgery. We found out that my FIL who was supposed to watch my 2 year old this week wont take the time off work, so the baby will go with us to Salt Lake , and DH is looking forward to some daddy/son time while I am in the Hospital.

Once we figured that out, and we talked, both of us feel ready to tackle this week and the recovery together.
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Unread 04-22-2012, 02:27 PM
Re: What a difference a day makes.

Jmb84078 That's a wonder thing i am glad that you both are on the same page. Things are going to work out great. I pray a speedy recovery for you. God bless
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