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Prepare for Your Hysterectomy

Scheduled for a hysterectomy? You'll be better prepared with our resources and information and woman-to-woman support before your hysterectomy. Gather "questions to ask your doctor" and how to prepare your family.

Read on for more information about preparing for your hysterectomy.

Pre-op Hysterectomy Video

Have you wondered how to prepare for your upcoming hysterectomy? Do you wonder what you can expect or how you should prepare? This video produced by HysterSisters.com provides you with answers to your questions and help for your surgery.

Prepare Your Spot

You will probably have one location that you will spend most of your time. For the first few days that spot will most likely be your bedroom.

Start with a good cleaning. Change the sheets on your bed the day you leave for the hospital so that your bed will be fresh. A body pillow is a great idea or at least extra pillows for supporting your every lounging position would be helpful to add to your bed.

Tidy up the room and make sure the bedside table is cleared of all clutter. This will be the best place to put your cell phone, the remote control, and your water bottle. Read More.

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Pre-Op Appointment Questions to Ask

The following is a list of good and informative questions to ask your doctor. Of course, customize this list to your particular needs. Add to the list if you have other questions. Don?t be afraid to print out this list and bring it with you to your appointment!

Take a notepad with you to each doctor appointment. Write down your questions. Write down your doctor's responses. You may need to refer to your notes later. The HysterSisters, also, suggest taking a friend or spouse with you to your appointments to help you "hear" and remember!

Questions About Your Surgery

  • Am I a candidate for minimally invasive surgery?
  • How many surgeries like this for my diagnosis do you do each month?
  • What percent are minimally invasive surgeries? What percent are open incision?
  • Would you recommend a laparoscopic surgery for me? If no, "Why not?"
  • Will the doctor make a bladder tack? What is a bladder tack? (If you have incontinence, this is the time to bring it up as this is the best time for bladder and/or rectum repair) How long will surgery take?
  • Exactly what will be removed? Uterus, ovaries, tubes, cervix, appendix? (How will these organs be removed? Through open abdominal incision? Through the vagina? With the help of a laparoscope?)
  • Will I need any preparation before surgery? (enema, stool softener, liquid diet, etc)
  • I take certain meds regularly (list your meds, including over-the-counter meds and supplements), will I be allowed to take these to the hospital with me?
  • What kind of anesthesia will I have?

Questions About Your Recovery

  • How long will I be in the hospital?
  • How long will I be on bed rest?
  • Will a pathology report be done of all the organs removed? I do want one done.
  • How long for the results of the pathology report to come in? (If cancer is suspected, when will I begin cancer treatments and what options are there?)
  • If I'm taking BC pills or HRT, do I stop taking them prior to surgery? If so, how long before?
  • What medication will I be on for pain in the hospital and when I am home?
  • Will the doctor use a tummy binder on me? Will I need one?
  • If my ovaries are being removed, when will I start hormones (HRT)? Most important: will the doctor help me to adjust if needed or should I see my family doctor to help with this?
  • If I am keeping my ovaries, how will I know if they are working post-op? if they shut down temporarily and I experience hot flashes, how long will I endure menopause symptoms before the ovaries kick back in?
  • When will I be able to resume driving?
  • How long will I be off work?
  • Will I be able to lift my baby? If not, how much can I lift safely at 4 weeks, at 6 weeks?
  • When can I return to the gym? When can I return to horseback riding, biking, running?
  • I've heard that there is a problem with gas after surgery and have been told that over-the-counter medicines such as Gas-X can help. Is it OK if I take some along to the hospital with me?
  • What are the restrictions for any sort of sexual activity after surgery? Is external stimulation allowed and if so, how soon? When can intercourse be resumed?

"Must Have" List Preparing for Hysterectomy

Are there any "MUST HAVES" that I should purchase for my upcoming surgery?

Here are some suggestions from the HysterSisters members: "The two things I have found most "needed" for me during my recovery are my body pillow and a plastic cup with a lid and a straw. The pillow I purchased a couple weeks before surgery, but the cup was given to me by the hospital. It's been a lifesaver. The straw is so long that I'd actually have to try really hard to spill this thing. I hardly have to lift it from the table to drink from it."

"An ice pack came in handy. The ice pack has worked wonders with the aches and the random hot flashes I've been getting."

"A few pair of big underpants. The mesh ones from the hospital were nice enough, but..." Read more

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Help for the Mister

The Hyster Sisters website was created for "women to women" online support for hysterectomy decisions and support providing articles for pre-op, post-op and hormone therapy along with live discussions within the forums of the site.

But we know that the men, the husbands, family members and caretakers of the HysterSisters, lurk online, reading the website, trying to gather information to help them understand what is happening to their wives and girlfriends. They are frightened. They are confused. They want to help.

Mister HysterSisters website offers help and information for the caretakers of the HysterSisters. Please share this information with the man in your life!

At the Hospital

Pack light! You really don't need to bring much to the hospital. Here is a list of items the HysterSisters suggest:


  • Tummy pillow (buy yours at the Hysterectomy store)
  • Backscratcher
  • Lip balm
  • Slippers
  • Your own night shirt
  • Oversize cotton panties
  • Pads
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Shampoo and conditioner
  • Hair brush
  • Facial cleanser
  • Deodorant
  • Lightweigh cotton robe
  • Lotion
  • Ponytail holder
  • A cell phone
  • Prescriptions (check with staff on restrictions)

Do not bring:

  • Money or valuables
  • Jewelry
  • Anything more than a small overnight bag can comfortably hold

More Helpful Hospital Tips

  • Take notes
  • Listen when your doctor speaks
  • Have someone with you for discharge instructions
  • Say Thank you
  • Ask for copies of your file
  • Be 'nice' to the hospital staff
  • Be proactive with your care
  • Let staff know your needs
  • Make friends with kitchen staff
  • Write thank you notes to medical staff

From the Forums

Best Wishes to our January 21 Princesses
Wishing you better health and best outcome for your hysterectomy to our members with upcoming surgeries! We will see in you the Recovering from Hyster ..... [More]

Preparing For Hysterectomy Tomorrow 1/19, Nervous But Calmer
After agonizing over more information, anxiety, cancelling, I am at peace with my decision to go forward tomorrow the 19th. I am definitely opting to ..... [More]

Upcoming hysterectomy 2/8: Advice needed re back pain!
Hi I am due to have a hysterectomy on 8th February and I am wondering what other people's experience of pain was prior to having their surgery. I beg ..... [More]

Best Wishes to our January 20 Princesses
Wishing you better health and best outcome for your hysterectomy to our members with upcoming surgeries! We will see in you the Recovering from Hyster ..... [More]

Best Wishes to our January 19 Princesses
Wishing you better health and best outcome for your hysterectomy to our members with upcoming surgeries! We will see in you the Recovering from Hyster ..... [More]

More Pre-Op Resources

Check out these resources to help you prepare for surgery. Don't forget our best resource - our pre-op discussion forum where thousands of HysterSisters participate daily! AND - Don't forget to ask your doctor for additional resources.

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